I recently had the pleasure of visiting PreetiRang Sanctuary and was so inspired by Madhulika's wisdom and passion that I had to share her with you. She has taught me many things about Hinduism and Indian culture and has left me completely inspired.
Can you tell me a
little bit about your background? Where are you originally from? What brought
you to the US?
I was raised by very supportive
and encouraging parents, i.e., parents did not differentiate between sons and
daughters. Realizing that I am very intelligent and wanted to study Engineering,
they agreed though they would have preferred that I follow the common path of
getting a Bachelors’ degree and getting married.
Two more notable
recollections about my parents are:
1. They always told us,
“Do what you want to do and be happy that you are doing what you want to do."
2. Without telling us what
to do or not to do, they made it plenty clear that anything less than one’s
best is NOT acceptable. An example is, throughout school, a Bachelors’ degree
and 3 Masters’ degrees, I have NEVER missed an assignment, actually never
missed even one question on an assignment. I didn’t know it was possible to go
to school and “face” a teacher without completing my assignment.
Our oldest taught me it’s not possible to do every
assignment when he was in High School.
I remember joking with my mother after that, “You and Papa
didn’t raise me right. You didn’t teach me that I could take shortcuts. You
didn’t tell me I could skip assignments.” My mother laughed, “I don’t know to this day that it is possible
to go to school without completing assignments and I would teach that to my
children even today."
Also, I am highly
influenced by the discipline, hard work and integrity of my maternal
grandfather who was the Chief Justice of India. I wish I could achieve a
fraction of what he did.
I am originally from
Kolkata, West Bengal, India. I got married to a
gentleman, settled in the USA, and had just gained admission at Yale University
for a MSEE (Master of Science in Electrical Engineering) degree.


